It is very disheartening to discover that the girl who you so much love has been taking you for granted.
Well, it is better to discover this early enough than to discover it when it is too late. Therefore, if you want to know if the girl you love, or your girlfriend does not really care about you, but she is only taking you for granted,Ozil has explained five signs you will notice if your girlfriend is taking you for granted.
Those signs can be found below.
1. She will always neglect you when she need advice.
Love means more than sharing of emotions, kisses and love making. It is very far from these things. Being in a relationship means that you are with someone who you love so much, trust a lot and can confide in when you are in trouble, or someone you can run to when you have problems. Therefore, if your girlfriend doesn’t talk about her problems with you, or seek for your advice on any issue, but she goes to other people for solutions or advises for her problems, then she is neglecting you. That is to say that she is taking you for granted.
2. She will stop asking for your opinion and approval before making any decision.
When you are in love with someone, especially when you are already in a relationship with that person, the person has indirectly become a part of you, the only thing you need to make it official is to get married to that person. Therefore, that person, if she is not taking you for granted will never do anything or take any decision without seeking for your advice, opinion, consent or approval.
3. She will only call or text you when she need something.
Your girlfriend is seriously taking you for granted if she doesn’t call you or text you unless she need something from you.
In a relationship, it is the duty of the two lovers to call each other, not the duty of the man alone. Therefore, if your girlfriend only has airtime to call or text you when she need money or something from you, be assured that she is taking you for granted.
4. She will value her work more than you and the relationship.
Unarguably, work is very important because relationship need money to be maintained, but it should not be put first before relationship. There is time for everything.
Your girlfriend cannot be busy always. If she is, what about your relationship? What about you and the attention you need? If she takes her work more important than you and the relationship, she is taking you for granted.
5. She will always get from you, more than what they gives to you.
In many relationships, men are usually at the losing end because their girlfriends take them for granted. In such a relationship, the girl may have only little or even nothing to contribute, but she will expect to be given everything. If you find yourself in such a bad relationship, your girlfriend is taking you for granted